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Urge surfing

A short guided sit with the wave of an urge.

A person calmly riding a big, soft wave on a surfboard.
Before you start. If you have a health condition, are pregnant, or take medication, check with your doctor before trying this. Stop if you feel dizzy, short of breath, unwell, or distressed, and breathe normally.

A five-minute practice. Eyes can stay open. Stop if you feel unwell.

Step by step

  1. Two bare feet resting flat on a wooden floor.

    Arrive (40 seconds)

    feet on the floor. You can keep your eyes open.

  2. A person calmly riding a big, soft wave on a surfboard.

    Name the urge (45 seconds)

    give it one plain name. You don't have to act.

  3. A person sitting upright, breathing out slowly through softly parted lips.

    Watch the crest (70 seconds)

    notice if it rises. Breathe out a little longer, if that feels okay.

  4. A person in a kitchen holding a glass of water, with an open window and shoes by the door.

    Let it move (50 seconds)

    waves change. Stay with the room.

  5. A person in a kitchen holding a glass of water, with an open window and shoes by the door.

    Close (40 seconds)

    one thing you'll do in the next ten minutes.

Where this comes from

Urge surfing comes from relapse-prevention research. US psychologist Alan Marlatt described it in the 1980s, and it later became part of Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention (MBRP), which he developed with colleagues including Sarah Bowen.

Why it can help

Urges tend to rise, peak and ease, like a wave. Watching that happen, instead of fighting the urge or obeying it, can make it easier to wait one out. In a 2009 study of university students who smoked, a short urge-surfing instruction did not make urges weaker, but people smoked fewer cigarettes over the next week. In a 2014 trial, people in MBRP reported fewer days of drug use and less heavy drinking a year later than people in usual aftercare. Results differ from person to person.

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